"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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misionman

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ok heres my situation, theres this girl in my last period class who i kinda like and well ocasionaly glance and meet eyes. now the problem for me is that shes across the room and there no room for small talk in class, u no like so wat did u get for #7 ect, and i dont want to come up and seem like a creep. so what do u guys sudjest on how to start a convo with her with out seeming like a creep oh yea and shes kinda shy quite. so eny advice for starting a convo?

thank you
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by misionman
ok heres my situation, theres this girl in my last period class who i kinda like and well ocasionaly glance and meet eyes. now the problem for me is that shes across the room and there no room for small talk in class, u no like so wat did u get for #7 ect, and i dont want to come up and seem like a creep. so what do u guys sudjest on how to start a convo with her with out seeming like a creep oh yea and shes kinda shy quite. so eny advice for starting a convo?

thank you
hey you look real quiet.
hey how u doin
 
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hey wanna get in my pants?
HEY why dont we go in the back of the room and murder our virginity.
 

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there's gotta be some time before or after class that people can talk, just walk up to her and start a conversation, comment on something she's wearing, something going on in the class (try to be more interesting than "do you know the answer to...) then take it from there. For more conversation tips check out the bible, there's a bunch in there.
 
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