"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Long story short I used to be fwb with this girl and lost connection and recently started texting me again catching up yet I can't really get a read on her what her intentions are, she talks about a guy she's seeing yet talks about our past and saying how great I look?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Arod12 said:
Long story short I used to be fwb with this girl and lost connection and recently started texting me again catching up yet I can't really get a read on her what her intentions are, she talks about a guy she's seeing yet talks about our past and saying how great I look?
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She's unhappy with the guy she's seeing. Invite her over to watch a movie or something.
 
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Here's where it gets complicated, I have a gf, and as crazy as this sounds me and the fwb have always had a better connection but seems like she doesn't want to interfere (happened the last time I was dating someone). Her words "we can hangout as long as no one gets upset"
 
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Here's where it gets complicated, I have a gf

Its not complicated. She wants to have sex, and you have a gf now....

So either

1) Hang out with her and cheat on your girlfriend

2) Say "its nice to catch up with you, but I dont think its a good idea if we hangout."

I cant be your moral compass. Id elect for #2. If things dont work out with your gf...you could always hit her up.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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