"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Long story short I used to be fwb with this girl and lost connection and recently started texting me again catching up yet I can't really get a read on her what her intentions are, she talks about a guy she's seeing yet talks about our past and saying how great I look?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Arod12 said:
Long story short I used to be fwb with this girl and lost connection and recently started texting me again catching up yet I can't really get a read on her what her intentions are, she talks about a guy she's seeing yet talks about our past and saying how great I look?
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She's unhappy with the guy she's seeing. Invite her over to watch a movie or something.
 
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Here's where it gets complicated, I have a gf, and as crazy as this sounds me and the fwb have always had a better connection but seems like she doesn't want to interfere (happened the last time I was dating someone). Her words "we can hangout as long as no one gets upset"
 
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Here's where it gets complicated, I have a gf

Its not complicated. She wants to have sex, and you have a gf now....

So either

1) Hang out with her and cheat on your girlfriend

2) Say "its nice to catch up with you, but I dont think its a good idea if we hangout."

I cant be your moral compass. Id elect for #2. If things dont work out with your gf...you could always hit her up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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