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Long story short I used to be fwb with this girl and lost connection and recently started texting me again catching up yet I can't really get a read on her what her intentions are, she talks about a guy she's seeing yet talks about our past and saying how great I look?
 

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Arod12 said:
Long story short I used to be fwb with this girl and lost connection and recently started texting me again catching up yet I can't really get a read on her what her intentions are, she talks about a guy she's seeing yet talks about our past and saying how great I look?
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She's unhappy with the guy she's seeing. Invite her over to watch a movie or something.
 
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Here's where it gets complicated, I have a gf, and as crazy as this sounds me and the fwb have always had a better connection but seems like she doesn't want to interfere (happened the last time I was dating someone). Her words "we can hangout as long as no one gets upset"
 
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Here's where it gets complicated, I have a gf

Its not complicated. She wants to have sex, and you have a gf now....

So either

1) Hang out with her and cheat on your girlfriend

2) Say "its nice to catch up with you, but I dont think its a good idea if we hangout."

I cant be your moral compass. Id elect for #2. If things dont work out with your gf...you could always hit her up.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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