"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, we hung out, made out nothing serious. So I was busy the last little while and probably a little bit lazy. We talk on MSN every day or so, but it seems her interest level is not as high as it was a couple of weeks ago. I know my problem is that I did not put in a good effort. So what is a gameplan I can follow from here on out. Do I call her take her on a date or something. Or if her IL is low now is it too late. She is only 18 so kinda imature. How do I handle a girl like this. I am usually with older (25) women. My problem with women is not getting them interested its having a gameplan to stick to when setting up dates and such.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First off, immediately stop chatting with her everyday on MSN messenger and whatever other instant messaging program you have. Talking to a ***** online is a sure fire way to kill interest so cut it out and become scarce. Then after a while give her a ring - assuming you already have her number, and if not, for a moment disregard my previous advice about msn and, sign on, get her number, then immediately sign off- and gauge her interest level over the phone(you should be able to tell) to see if it's at a good level. If it is, ask her out on a date, but if it 's not, then NEXT
 
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Do what DJ Dace said!!!

Only chat online to get her number and a date!
 
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Good advice guys. Thanks. Anymore tips would be appreciated.
 
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Take her on a date, and show her what a smooth guy you are. Make sure she has a good time and try to take her somewhere out of the ordinary. Once the date is over and she's convinced your a cool guy to kick it with.....thats when you give her the cold shoulder and make her chase you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by DrEaMeR_323
Take her on a date, and show her what a smooth guy you are. Make sure she has a good time and try to take her somewhere out of the ordinary. Once the date is over and she's convinced your a cool guy to kick it with.....thats when you give her the cold shoulder and make her chase you.
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whatever you do, don't do this.
 
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