"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, we hung out, made out nothing serious. So I was busy the last little while and probably a little bit lazy. We talk on MSN every day or so, but it seems her interest level is not as high as it was a couple of weeks ago. I know my problem is that I did not put in a good effort. So what is a gameplan I can follow from here on out. Do I call her take her on a date or something. Or if her IL is low now is it too late. She is only 18 so kinda imature. How do I handle a girl like this. I am usually with older (25) women. My problem with women is not getting them interested its having a gameplan to stick to when setting up dates and such.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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First off, immediately stop chatting with her everyday on MSN messenger and whatever other instant messaging program you have. Talking to a ***** online is a sure fire way to kill interest so cut it out and become scarce. Then after a while give her a ring - assuming you already have her number, and if not, for a moment disregard my previous advice about msn and, sign on, get her number, then immediately sign off- and gauge her interest level over the phone(you should be able to tell) to see if it's at a good level. If it is, ask her out on a date, but if it 's not, then NEXT
 
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Do what DJ Dace said!!!

Only chat online to get her number and a date!
 
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Good advice guys. Thanks. Anymore tips would be appreciated.
 
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Take her on a date, and show her what a smooth guy you are. Make sure she has a good time and try to take her somewhere out of the ordinary. Once the date is over and she's convinced your a cool guy to kick it with.....thats when you give her the cold shoulder and make her chase you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by DrEaMeR_323
Take her on a date, and show her what a smooth guy you are. Make sure she has a good time and try to take her somewhere out of the ordinary. Once the date is over and she's convinced your a cool guy to kick it with.....thats when you give her the cold shoulder and make her chase you.
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whatever you do, don't do this.
 
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