"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Help with a girl

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So I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, we hung out, made out nothing serious. So I was busy the last little while and probably a little bit lazy. We talk on MSN every day or so, but it seems her interest level is not as high as it was a couple of weeks ago. I know my problem is that I did not put in a good effort. So what is a gameplan I can follow from here on out. Do I call her take her on a date or something. Or if her IL is low now is it too late. She is only 18 so kinda imature. How do I handle a girl like this. I am usually with older (25) women. My problem with women is not getting them interested its having a gameplan to stick to when setting up dates and such.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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daceovspades

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First off, immediately stop chatting with her everyday on MSN messenger and whatever other instant messaging program you have. Talking to a ***** online is a sure fire way to kill interest so cut it out and become scarce. Then after a while give her a ring - assuming you already have her number, and if not, for a moment disregard my previous advice about msn and, sign on, get her number, then immediately sign off- and gauge her interest level over the phone(you should be able to tell) to see if it's at a good level. If it is, ask her out on a date, but if it 's not, then NEXT
 
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Do what DJ Dace said!!!

Only chat online to get her number and a date!
 

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Good advice guys. Thanks. Anymore tips would be appreciated.
 

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Take her on a date, and show her what a smooth guy you are. Make sure she has a good time and try to take her somewhere out of the ordinary. Once the date is over and she's convinced your a cool guy to kick it with.....thats when you give her the cold shoulder and make her chase you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by DrEaMeR_323
Take her on a date, and show her what a smooth guy you are. Make sure she has a good time and try to take her somewhere out of the ordinary. Once the date is over and she's convinced your a cool guy to kick it with.....thats when you give her the cold shoulder and make her chase you.
whatever you do, don't do this.
 
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