"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Help with a girl :)

AJL

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Hey guys.


Well, it's the same old story. I am 17 years old and I like this girl. I have spoken to her a bit, but nothing really serious. This is where I need help.

You see, next time I speak to her I will do the usual; ask how she's going, make small talk and basically what we usually do. This time however, I want to throw in a little something that she won't see coming. Nothing major that will shock her, but just something subtle that will get her thinking about me.

I am not talking about a slap on the ass or anything too inappropriate like that, just something small. I am thinking that maybe asking her to have lunch with me or something might be enough, but it would be cool to have something that doesn't really give her the option of rejecting, just something I can say or do.


Hope you guys know what I mean!

Thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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playa99

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use some C+F on her and flirt a bit, also use kino, kiss her on the cheek when your leaving, that will get her thinking about you ;)

also when you've done all this, wait for her to initiate contact with you, it will show that she has interest, then you should ask her out and what not ;)
 

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playa99 said:
use some C+F on her and flirt a bit, also use kino, kiss her on the cheek when your leaving, that will get her thinking about you ;)

also when you've done all this, wait for her to initiate contact with you, it will show that she has interest, then you should ask her out and what not ;)

Thanks, but what is C+F?


And I am not anywhere near kiss on cheek level yet.
 

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Man !!
I heard this from Jeffy (RSD). He talked about this topic a lot and he said that if you like a girl, you should be able to pick up every woman there, than you can select (and pick up) your "perfect woman".
That's how you can do this. You need to have skills to pick up every woman.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Start casual talking, find out if she's single. The last thing you want is to try to game her when she's already taken.
C+F needs to be done correctly for it to work in high school, it can easily be misunderstood for an insult whereby you will have the nickname of being an arsehole.
 

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Axcell said:
Start casual talking, find out if she's single.
AJL has been doing this, if he doesnt start flirting soon he will be LJBFed

yeah AJL you have gotta be sweet and charming in HS if youre going to pull off ****y and funny

its hard to do but if you can pull it off you can rake in the girls ;)
to charm the girls just treat them like little girls they love it ;)
to be sweet to them come out with cheesy comments every so often

this will prevent you from becoming known as an arsehole
which is what happened to me at first when i used C+F
just be careful with it
 

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Thanks for advice guys.

I forgot to mention, I am actually in 1st year college, but I figured I might as well put this in the high school section anyway as college is kinda like high school if you know what I mean.
 

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Just ask her out!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AlexParadox said:
id like to reword this:

Just Take her out!

:up:
That's what I meant :p
 
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