"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help with a girl :)

AJL

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Hey guys.


Well, it's the same old story. I am 17 years old and I like this girl. I have spoken to her a bit, but nothing really serious. This is where I need help.

You see, next time I speak to her I will do the usual; ask how she's going, make small talk and basically what we usually do. This time however, I want to throw in a little something that she won't see coming. Nothing major that will shock her, but just something subtle that will get her thinking about me.

I am not talking about a slap on the ass or anything too inappropriate like that, just something small. I am thinking that maybe asking her to have lunch with me or something might be enough, but it would be cool to have something that doesn't really give her the option of rejecting, just something I can say or do.


Hope you guys know what I mean!

Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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playa99

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use some C+F on her and flirt a bit, also use kino, kiss her on the cheek when your leaving, that will get her thinking about you ;)

also when you've done all this, wait for her to initiate contact with you, it will show that she has interest, then you should ask her out and what not ;)
 

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playa99 said:
use some C+F on her and flirt a bit, also use kino, kiss her on the cheek when your leaving, that will get her thinking about you ;)

also when you've done all this, wait for her to initiate contact with you, it will show that she has interest, then you should ask her out and what not ;)

Thanks, but what is C+F?


And I am not anywhere near kiss on cheek level yet.
 

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Man !!
I heard this from Jeffy (RSD). He talked about this topic a lot and he said that if you like a girl, you should be able to pick up every woman there, than you can select (and pick up) your "perfect woman".
That's how you can do this. You need to have skills to pick up every woman.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Start casual talking, find out if she's single. The last thing you want is to try to game her when she's already taken.
C+F needs to be done correctly for it to work in high school, it can easily be misunderstood for an insult whereby you will have the nickname of being an arsehole.
 

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Axcell said:
Start casual talking, find out if she's single.
AJL has been doing this, if he doesnt start flirting soon he will be LJBFed

yeah AJL you have gotta be sweet and charming in HS if youre going to pull off ****y and funny

its hard to do but if you can pull it off you can rake in the girls ;)
to charm the girls just treat them like little girls they love it ;)
to be sweet to them come out with cheesy comments every so often

this will prevent you from becoming known as an arsehole
which is what happened to me at first when i used C+F
just be careful with it
 

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Thanks for advice guys.

I forgot to mention, I am actually in 1st year college, but I figured I might as well put this in the high school section anyway as college is kinda like high school if you know what I mean.
 

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Just ask her out!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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AlexParadox said:
id like to reword this:

Just Take her out!

:up:
That's what I meant :p
 
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