"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Help with a girl :)

AJL

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Hey guys.


Well, it's the same old story. I am 17 years old and I like this girl. I have spoken to her a bit, but nothing really serious. This is where I need help.

You see, next time I speak to her I will do the usual; ask how she's going, make small talk and basically what we usually do. This time however, I want to throw in a little something that she won't see coming. Nothing major that will shock her, but just something subtle that will get her thinking about me.

I am not talking about a slap on the ass or anything too inappropriate like that, just something small. I am thinking that maybe asking her to have lunch with me or something might be enough, but it would be cool to have something that doesn't really give her the option of rejecting, just something I can say or do.


Hope you guys know what I mean!

Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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playa99

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use some C+F on her and flirt a bit, also use kino, kiss her on the cheek when your leaving, that will get her thinking about you ;)

also when you've done all this, wait for her to initiate contact with you, it will show that she has interest, then you should ask her out and what not ;)
 

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playa99 said:
use some C+F on her and flirt a bit, also use kino, kiss her on the cheek when your leaving, that will get her thinking about you ;)

also when you've done all this, wait for her to initiate contact with you, it will show that she has interest, then you should ask her out and what not ;)

Thanks, but what is C+F?


And I am not anywhere near kiss on cheek level yet.
 

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Man !!
I heard this from Jeffy (RSD). He talked about this topic a lot and he said that if you like a girl, you should be able to pick up every woman there, than you can select (and pick up) your "perfect woman".
That's how you can do this. You need to have skills to pick up every woman.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Start casual talking, find out if she's single. The last thing you want is to try to game her when she's already taken.
C+F needs to be done correctly for it to work in high school, it can easily be misunderstood for an insult whereby you will have the nickname of being an arsehole.
 

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Axcell said:
Start casual talking, find out if she's single.
AJL has been doing this, if he doesnt start flirting soon he will be LJBFed

yeah AJL you have gotta be sweet and charming in HS if youre going to pull off ****y and funny

its hard to do but if you can pull it off you can rake in the girls ;)
to charm the girls just treat them like little girls they love it ;)
to be sweet to them come out with cheesy comments every so often

this will prevent you from becoming known as an arsehole
which is what happened to me at first when i used C+F
just be careful with it
 

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Thanks for advice guys.

I forgot to mention, I am actually in 1st year college, but I figured I might as well put this in the high school section anyway as college is kinda like high school if you know what I mean.
 

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Just ask her out!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AlexParadox said:
id like to reword this:

Just Take her out!

:up:
That's what I meant :p
 
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