"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Help with a girl :)

AJL

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Hey guys.


Well, it's the same old story. I am 17 years old and I like this girl. I have spoken to her a bit, but nothing really serious. This is where I need help.

You see, next time I speak to her I will do the usual; ask how she's going, make small talk and basically what we usually do. This time however, I want to throw in a little something that she won't see coming. Nothing major that will shock her, but just something subtle that will get her thinking about me.

I am not talking about a slap on the ass or anything too inappropriate like that, just something small. I am thinking that maybe asking her to have lunch with me or something might be enough, but it would be cool to have something that doesn't really give her the option of rejecting, just something I can say or do.


Hope you guys know what I mean!

Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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use some C+F on her and flirt a bit, also use kino, kiss her on the cheek when your leaving, that will get her thinking about you ;)

also when you've done all this, wait for her to initiate contact with you, it will show that she has interest, then you should ask her out and what not ;)
 

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playa99 said:
use some C+F on her and flirt a bit, also use kino, kiss her on the cheek when your leaving, that will get her thinking about you ;)

also when you've done all this, wait for her to initiate contact with you, it will show that she has interest, then you should ask her out and what not ;)

Thanks, but what is C+F?


And I am not anywhere near kiss on cheek level yet.
 

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Man !!
I heard this from Jeffy (RSD). He talked about this topic a lot and he said that if you like a girl, you should be able to pick up every woman there, than you can select (and pick up) your "perfect woman".
That's how you can do this. You need to have skills to pick up every woman.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Start casual talking, find out if she's single. The last thing you want is to try to game her when she's already taken.
C+F needs to be done correctly for it to work in high school, it can easily be misunderstood for an insult whereby you will have the nickname of being an arsehole.
 

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Axcell said:
Start casual talking, find out if she's single.
AJL has been doing this, if he doesnt start flirting soon he will be LJBFed

yeah AJL you have gotta be sweet and charming in HS if youre going to pull off ****y and funny

its hard to do but if you can pull it off you can rake in the girls ;)
to charm the girls just treat them like little girls they love it ;)
to be sweet to them come out with cheesy comments every so often

this will prevent you from becoming known as an arsehole
which is what happened to me at first when i used C+F
just be careful with it
 

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Thanks for advice guys.

I forgot to mention, I am actually in 1st year college, but I figured I might as well put this in the high school section anyway as college is kinda like high school if you know what I mean.
 

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Just ask her out!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AlexParadox said:
id like to reword this:

Just Take her out!

:up:
That's what I meant :p
 
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