hey just join...been readin your post for awhile...an i think u guy can help me out...i maybe just readin to much into this with this girl but i dont know....k here the thing...........i have been (datin) this girl for like a mouth now....an everything is goin good....she want to take it slow which i have never really done an same with her.....she said she is really interested...but she just dosnt want to mass up with what we have....all of her friend say she crezy not to date me....an that pretty much the thing...girl if ur friend keep tell u 2 go out with this guy would u get sick of it....cuz i think she is an it may mass up what we have...any thought...thanks for the help
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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- Thread starter shady313
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
There are a few. We discourage women from joining this forum because its counter productive. Automatically you're going to get the 'Just take it slowly with her so she's comfortable. Just be nice and listen to her and do nice things for her and she'll slowly like you more.'
It doesn't work that way. Don't rely on female opinions for what to do next. They'll give you 'motherly' advice.
With this girl tease her, make yourself a challenge, have fun with it and don't be too into her.
It doesn't work that way. Don't rely on female opinions for what to do next. They'll give you 'motherly' advice.
With this girl tease her, make yourself a challenge, have fun with it and don't be too into her.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Docs
Banned
Make her want to go faster 
Docs
Banned
It's just one of those days today
There was a point in that one though. She wants to go slow, you want her to go faster. So...make her want to go faster
Yes! I'm not entirely useless today!
There was a point in that one though. She wants to go slow, you want her to go faster. So...make her want to go faster
Yes! I'm not entirely useless today!
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.