"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help!! What should I do?

Macaframalama

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So I dumped her and her Facebook status immediately updated to in a relationship with another guy. I had her removed already off of social media, but my sister called me to tell me about it. What a piece of work
Cold!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rapport101

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Finally just snapped out of it. I was stuck on the oneitus thoughts. Even though I never want to get back together with her. My subconscious was actively pursuing thoughts of “when”.

Time to work on myself, do what I want to do, and become the person that I want to be. I’m committing myself to becoming better than I was before and happier.
 

MoreThanSmooth

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**Update**

So I went no contact, and this girl went completely nuts. I blocked her off of everything and she started calling me from different numbers. 60 missed calls yesterday. Then she started blowing up my email until I blocked her off of that as well. The last thing she said to me was that if I’m going to be like that, she’s going to go and **** a mutual friend. My friend called me, and told me that she was trying to invite him out lol. So him and myself met up, went out, had two hb9s by the end of the night. Lol. And she’s still in the relationship with the other guy. Lmao. Also she tried telling me that the reason she had the relationship status update was a test to see if I cared but because I’m spinning other plates now I ruined everything
What a f***ing wench, you are better off without her mate. Anyone who cheats on you after you agree on commitment can GTFO, doesn't matter how hot they are, how much you love them, eject them out of your life because people like that are poisonous.

If you treat someone right and they cheat, it shows weak character, weak morals and immaturity. None of the stuff you want with someone.

Even if you can go out and get girls I wouldn't just now, btw. Easy to descend into a spiral of getting with loads of girls to ease the pain and then you just end up with an STI or another s*** rebound relationship.

Instead just focus on your buddies, your hobbies, your family and the gym. Make yourself #1 for a month or two, and then you might be ready to go and find someone decent again.
 

Rapport101

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What a f***ing wench, you are better off without her mate. Anyone who cheats on you after you agree on commitment can GTFO, doesn't matter how hot they are, how much you love them, eject them out of your life because people like that are poisonous.

If you treat someone right and they cheat, it shows weak character, weak morals and immaturity. None of the stuff you want with someone.

Even if you can go out and get girls I wouldn't just now, btw. Easy to descend into a spiral of getting with loads of girls to ease the pain and then you just end up with an STI or another s*** rebound relationship.

Instead just focus on your buddies, your hobbies, your family and the gym. Make yourself #1 for a month or two, and then you might be ready to go and find someone decent again.
Thanks. That’s definitely what I’m fixing to do
 
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