"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Help!! What should I do?

Macaframalama

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So I dumped her and her Facebook status immediately updated to in a relationship with another guy. I had her removed already off of social media, but my sister called me to tell me about it. What a piece of work
Cold!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Rapport101

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Finally just snapped out of it. I was stuck on the oneitus thoughts. Even though I never want to get back together with her. My subconscious was actively pursuing thoughts of “when”.

Time to work on myself, do what I want to do, and become the person that I want to be. I’m committing myself to becoming better than I was before and happier.
 

MoreThanSmooth

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**Update**

So I went no contact, and this girl went completely nuts. I blocked her off of everything and she started calling me from different numbers. 60 missed calls yesterday. Then she started blowing up my email until I blocked her off of that as well. The last thing she said to me was that if I’m going to be like that, she’s going to go and **** a mutual friend. My friend called me, and told me that she was trying to invite him out lol. So him and myself met up, went out, had two hb9s by the end of the night. Lol. And she’s still in the relationship with the other guy. Lmao. Also she tried telling me that the reason she had the relationship status update was a test to see if I cared but because I’m spinning other plates now I ruined everything
What a f***ing wench, you are better off without her mate. Anyone who cheats on you after you agree on commitment can GTFO, doesn't matter how hot they are, how much you love them, eject them out of your life because people like that are poisonous.

If you treat someone right and they cheat, it shows weak character, weak morals and immaturity. None of the stuff you want with someone.

Even if you can go out and get girls I wouldn't just now, btw. Easy to descend into a spiral of getting with loads of girls to ease the pain and then you just end up with an STI or another s*** rebound relationship.

Instead just focus on your buddies, your hobbies, your family and the gym. Make yourself #1 for a month or two, and then you might be ready to go and find someone decent again.
 

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What a f***ing wench, you are better off without her mate. Anyone who cheats on you after you agree on commitment can GTFO, doesn't matter how hot they are, how much you love them, eject them out of your life because people like that are poisonous.

If you treat someone right and they cheat, it shows weak character, weak morals and immaturity. None of the stuff you want with someone.

Even if you can go out and get girls I wouldn't just now, btw. Easy to descend into a spiral of getting with loads of girls to ease the pain and then you just end up with an STI or another s*** rebound relationship.

Instead just focus on your buddies, your hobbies, your family and the gym. Make yourself #1 for a month or two, and then you might be ready to go and find someone decent again.
Thanks. That’s definitely what I’m fixing to do
 
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