"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Help , Was I Wrong?????

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ok, its not often im wrong , but i think i may need to apolagize to some guy, i said testosterone levels have decreased in men compared to what they used to be, i could have sworn i read it somewhere, maybe i didnt?, anyway this guy wants proof , do i need to grab my balls and apologize?

help, anyone?:mad:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You're right mate they do!

Why do you think so many middle aged men are now turning to testosterone replacement therapy?

Oh sorry, I'm referring to men as they age in their own lifetime. Are you referring to men in this day and age as opposed to in the past? Not sure on that one but I would doubt it.
 

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I'm not sure if the actual make up of the human body can change that much in a 100 years.

Are you referring to how men aren't as manly now days?

If so, this is definitley the case.

Our social conditioning has feminized men over the years, which may only get worse or better since real man with balls like us will stand out amoung the pack.


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People thesedays eat more fatty foods, more sugar, less vegetables, drink more alcohol than 100years ago and all these and others mess with hormones leading to less testosterone and/or an increase in estrogen.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There has been reports in aquatic species that the males have become more "feminised" and having malformed male organs and stuff like that. My sister (a Phd biochemist) seems to think it is because a lot of pollutants have estrogenic like structures (mind you she's very alarmist about a lot of things). This may mean men are less manly than in the past i guess (i'm a microbiologist so i don't care much for biochemistry).
You could do a search and find some sort of info to back your self up *shrug
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Originally posted by willo

You could do a search and find some sort of info to back your self up *shrug
Cheers
thanks anyways for the input, and trust me I searched and searched but nothing , believe me i looked everywhere, i hate being wrong about this sh!t, ESPECIALLY when its something to do with how men of today are a bunch of puzzies.

although i did post this article on sosuave awhile back, and it "kind" of touches on the subject, but as far as i can tell still no solid proof we have less testosterone, maybe i dreamt it?.

the Ychromosome is now a weedy, genetic mess, riddled with damage, decay and mutation. It is, he says, slowly diminishing and ultimately doomed.

The reason is that the Ychromosome is unable to heal itself. Unlike men, women have two strapping X-chromosomes. These can pair up and swop genes to minimise bad mutations. The Y-chromosome of male DNA simply cannot do this.
And hence, natural mutations and damage simply keep accumulating through the generations.

In the face of this decline, the male’s Y-chromosome has no ‘partner’ from which to seek repairs. It is alone, and suffering what Prof Sykes calls ‘death from a thousand cuts’.

The evidence is all around us, and it’s not just the increasing feminisation of men, evolving over time into androgynous figures such as David Beckham. Prof Sykes also cites the increase in male infertility.
http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/lifeandstyle/articles/6269513?source=Daily Mail
 

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the Ychromosome is now a weedy, genetic mess, riddled with damage, decay and mutation. It is, he says, slowly diminishing and ultimately doomed.

The reason is that the Ychromosome is unable to heal itself. Unlike men, women have two strapping X-chromosomes. These can pair up and swop genes to minimise bad mutations. The Y-chromosome of male DNA simply cannot do this.
And hence, natural mutations and damage simply keep accumulating through the generations.

In the face of this decline, the male’s Y-chromosome has no ‘partner’ from which to seek repairs. It is alone, and suffering what Prof Sykes calls ‘death from a thousand cuts’.

The evidence is all around us, and it’s not just the increasing feminisation of men, evolving over time into androgynous figures such as David Beckham. Prof Sykes also cites the increase in male infertility.
I read another article just recently that says that the y-chromosome is much more complex than was thought when the above was written, and it appears to have some very complex self-healing abilities related to mirroring of various parts of itself.
Something about the fact that of the 18gazillion sections of the y-chromosome, only ten or so were thought to mean anything. But it turns out that a lot of the rest of it isn't junk, it's redundancy. Just like a man to make a backup.

Can't be bothered to find the article, sorry.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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