"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ok, its not often im wrong , but i think i may need to apolagize to some guy, i said testosterone levels have decreased in men compared to what they used to be, i could have sworn i read it somewhere, maybe i didnt?, anyway this guy wants proof , do i need to grab my balls and apologize?

help, anyone?:mad:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You're right mate they do!

Why do you think so many middle aged men are now turning to testosterone replacement therapy?

Oh sorry, I'm referring to men as they age in their own lifetime. Are you referring to men in this day and age as opposed to in the past? Not sure on that one but I would doubt it.
 

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I'm not sure if the actual make up of the human body can change that much in a 100 years.

Are you referring to how men aren't as manly now days?

If so, this is definitley the case.

Our social conditioning has feminized men over the years, which may only get worse or better since real man with balls like us will stand out amoung the pack.


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People thesedays eat more fatty foods, more sugar, less vegetables, drink more alcohol than 100years ago and all these and others mess with hormones leading to less testosterone and/or an increase in estrogen.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There has been reports in aquatic species that the males have become more "feminised" and having malformed male organs and stuff like that. My sister (a Phd biochemist) seems to think it is because a lot of pollutants have estrogenic like structures (mind you she's very alarmist about a lot of things). This may mean men are less manly than in the past i guess (i'm a microbiologist so i don't care much for biochemistry).
You could do a search and find some sort of info to back your self up *shrug
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Originally posted by willo

You could do a search and find some sort of info to back your self up *shrug
Cheers
thanks anyways for the input, and trust me I searched and searched but nothing , believe me i looked everywhere, i hate being wrong about this sh!t, ESPECIALLY when its something to do with how men of today are a bunch of puzzies.

although i did post this article on sosuave awhile back, and it "kind" of touches on the subject, but as far as i can tell still no solid proof we have less testosterone, maybe i dreamt it?.

the Ychromosome is now a weedy, genetic mess, riddled with damage, decay and mutation. It is, he says, slowly diminishing and ultimately doomed.

The reason is that the Ychromosome is unable to heal itself. Unlike men, women have two strapping X-chromosomes. These can pair up and swop genes to minimise bad mutations. The Y-chromosome of male DNA simply cannot do this.
And hence, natural mutations and damage simply keep accumulating through the generations.

In the face of this decline, the male’s Y-chromosome has no ‘partner’ from which to seek repairs. It is alone, and suffering what Prof Sykes calls ‘death from a thousand cuts’.

The evidence is all around us, and it’s not just the increasing feminisation of men, evolving over time into androgynous figures such as David Beckham. Prof Sykes also cites the increase in male infertility.
http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/lifeandstyle/articles/6269513?source=Daily Mail
 

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the Ychromosome is now a weedy, genetic mess, riddled with damage, decay and mutation. It is, he says, slowly diminishing and ultimately doomed.

The reason is that the Ychromosome is unable to heal itself. Unlike men, women have two strapping X-chromosomes. These can pair up and swop genes to minimise bad mutations. The Y-chromosome of male DNA simply cannot do this.
And hence, natural mutations and damage simply keep accumulating through the generations.

In the face of this decline, the male’s Y-chromosome has no ‘partner’ from which to seek repairs. It is alone, and suffering what Prof Sykes calls ‘death from a thousand cuts’.

The evidence is all around us, and it’s not just the increasing feminisation of men, evolving over time into androgynous figures such as David Beckham. Prof Sykes also cites the increase in male infertility.
I read another article just recently that says that the y-chromosome is much more complex than was thought when the above was written, and it appears to have some very complex self-healing abilities related to mirroring of various parts of itself.
Something about the fact that of the 18gazillion sections of the y-chromosome, only ten or so were thought to mean anything. But it turns out that a lot of the rest of it isn't junk, it's redundancy. Just like a man to make a backup.

Can't be bothered to find the article, sorry.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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