"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HELP w/ Dancing at club...

sac_hot_male

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I just had my first club experience and it wasn't as good as it should of be because i did nothing in there but sit and watch tons of people dance. The reason being is that i don't know how to dance. I don't wanna embrassed myself in front of a whole crowd.

Can some one please give me advice on how to dance in the club? Can you club-experience Dj throw in some of your info on club too? Any tips would be appreciated (movies, clips, tips, links). I just wants to learned how to dance like a guy would of dance in the club.


I think i should also admit that it was teen night and i am a teen. I'm like the only guy in my crew that can't dance and/or didn't dance last night.

Com'on fellas, this is a big one for me and a big step for me to take in my life.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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amoka

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If your aim is to go to clubs to dance, you certainly must know how to dance. However, if you go to pick up whores, you don't need to know to dance. If dancing is what you want to learn, I recommend taking dancing lesson from your local dance studio.
 

KnockoutJM

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Inside a club, it is dark, and loud, and most people are drinking, and you will probably never see most of them again.. DOn't worry about embarassing yourself, and just put yourself out.. You dont have to go into an open circle, just move with the beat.
 

sac_hot_male

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Amoka:
When i went to club, my intention was to do both, pick-up chicks and dance, but turns out that i didnt want to embrassed myself. And perhaps its safe for me to say this now, i did manage to hit on 5 chicks and got only 3 of their number but for some reason it didnt felt the same in the club. I some how felt unsatisfied.

KnouckoutJm:
It's not as dark as i thought it was. I can still see other peoples faces and such. And remember its teen night so therefore they dont sell alcohol. I can feel my body wanted to move to the dance but its me thats stopping it. I'm just not confidence with my dancing skill (have yet to try it out). All of my guy friend can dance, i'm the only one that cant.

Kev07:
I just check out your link, its pretty good but reading it wont help me out much, just like this site, I must apply to it.

Last but not least, thanks for your replies fellas, i really appreciate it
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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