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HELP w/ Dancing at club...

sac_hot_male

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I just had my first club experience and it wasn't as good as it should of be because i did nothing in there but sit and watch tons of people dance. The reason being is that i don't know how to dance. I don't wanna embrassed myself in front of a whole crowd.

Can some one please give me advice on how to dance in the club? Can you club-experience Dj throw in some of your info on club too? Any tips would be appreciated (movies, clips, tips, links). I just wants to learned how to dance like a guy would of dance in the club.


I think i should also admit that it was teen night and i am a teen. I'm like the only guy in my crew that can't dance and/or didn't dance last night.

Com'on fellas, this is a big one for me and a big step for me to take in my life.
 

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If your aim is to go to clubs to dance, you certainly must know how to dance. However, if you go to pick up whores, you don't need to know to dance. If dancing is what you want to learn, I recommend taking dancing lesson from your local dance studio.
 

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Inside a club, it is dark, and loud, and most people are drinking, and you will probably never see most of them again.. DOn't worry about embarassing yourself, and just put yourself out.. You dont have to go into an open circle, just move with the beat.
 

sac_hot_male

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Amoka:
When i went to club, my intention was to do both, pick-up chicks and dance, but turns out that i didnt want to embrassed myself. And perhaps its safe for me to say this now, i did manage to hit on 5 chicks and got only 3 of their number but for some reason it didnt felt the same in the club. I some how felt unsatisfied.

KnouckoutJm:
It's not as dark as i thought it was. I can still see other peoples faces and such. And remember its teen night so therefore they dont sell alcohol. I can feel my body wanted to move to the dance but its me thats stopping it. I'm just not confidence with my dancing skill (have yet to try it out). All of my guy friend can dance, i'm the only one that cant.

Kev07:
I just check out your link, its pretty good but reading it wont help me out much, just like this site, I must apply to it.

Last but not least, thanks for your replies fellas, i really appreciate it
 

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