"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HELP w/ Dancing at club...

sac_hot_male

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I just had my first club experience and it wasn't as good as it should of be because i did nothing in there but sit and watch tons of people dance. The reason being is that i don't know how to dance. I don't wanna embrassed myself in front of a whole crowd.

Can some one please give me advice on how to dance in the club? Can you club-experience Dj throw in some of your info on club too? Any tips would be appreciated (movies, clips, tips, links). I just wants to learned how to dance like a guy would of dance in the club.


I think i should also admit that it was teen night and i am a teen. I'm like the only guy in my crew that can't dance and/or didn't dance last night.

Com'on fellas, this is a big one for me and a big step for me to take in my life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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amoka

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If your aim is to go to clubs to dance, you certainly must know how to dance. However, if you go to pick up whores, you don't need to know to dance. If dancing is what you want to learn, I recommend taking dancing lesson from your local dance studio.
 

KnockoutJM

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Inside a club, it is dark, and loud, and most people are drinking, and you will probably never see most of them again.. DOn't worry about embarassing yourself, and just put yourself out.. You dont have to go into an open circle, just move with the beat.
 

sac_hot_male

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Amoka:
When i went to club, my intention was to do both, pick-up chicks and dance, but turns out that i didnt want to embrassed myself. And perhaps its safe for me to say this now, i did manage to hit on 5 chicks and got only 3 of their number but for some reason it didnt felt the same in the club. I some how felt unsatisfied.

KnouckoutJm:
It's not as dark as i thought it was. I can still see other peoples faces and such. And remember its teen night so therefore they dont sell alcohol. I can feel my body wanted to move to the dance but its me thats stopping it. I'm just not confidence with my dancing skill (have yet to try it out). All of my guy friend can dance, i'm the only one that cant.

Kev07:
I just check out your link, its pretty good but reading it wont help me out much, just like this site, I must apply to it.

Last but not least, thanks for your replies fellas, i really appreciate it
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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