"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HELP!! To Pay or Not to Pay??

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Hi Everyone once again happy 4th of July, I got into an argument with one of my friends over the fact that when you take a women out on a date you should always pay for her. I personally don’t think like that, "I think a women should earn it" Paying for a women on a date includes Food/Cab/Movie tickets/ Anything else... I would like to know if you guys always pay for your dates, or split the cost with them or don’t pay for them at all. I would Like to Know what you guys personally think about this topic and how women respond towards paying, not paying, or splitting the cost.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don't take her to expensive places, or if you somehow *must* use dinner dates, eat before you go, so you'll end up ordering a salad or whatever, and she (likely) would order less as well.

Or schedule the date after her dinner (but you might look like a weirdo no matter how you engineer that setup).

I haven't paid for anything for women for years myself. Used to pay all the time for dinner dates and other stuff like that. All I have to do is think of the near-empty bank account I had at the time to motivate me not to do it again, or excessively if I must.
 
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With me it depends on how the date is setup.. if it is casually brought up like "hey we should go to this event together" then we split it.. if she is all "Hey will you be my date to X event?" then I'll let her pay or I pay for myself.. only when i specifically say "Will you go with me to X event?" Will I pay.
 
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I always offer to split it. If he buys dinner, then I pick up the movie tickets. If he gets the concert tickets, I get the food. Try to keep it reasonably balanced.

OR...she plans & pays one date, you plan & pay the next.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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