"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Help this impoverished, money-less student get around with dating...

da_nuke

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OK, so I'm a high school student, and I only get $20 dollars a week. Everybody else I know gets at least $40. They always seem to have a LOT of money, while I always seem to have no money.

This school is all full of really, really hot chicks with a lot of money... and I'm just a worthless pauper that has been previously rejected in a really good place. Now I feel like I have to spend a lot of money in a date to impress them girls... but I just can't. Right now, for example, I have spent my last $3 dollars in fuel for my car. And no, I can't take the bus: I live in a 1000 ft hilltop, 5 miles away from the nearest bus stop.

I have absolutely no idea on where to go, and I feel like I'm gonna fail miserably if I dare taking these girls to a place within my economic possibilities. What can I do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheNewGuy

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Sebastien_Valmont said:
Get a Job.
QFT.


You know how much money I get per week? $0.
You know how much money I earn per week? Well, thats really none of your business.
 

Ll Principe

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See this as an oppurtunity, turn it into a masterpiece.
You say everyone has money and you dont, well that makes you unique already.
You stand out, you are different, continue that...tell the girls your different and yes tell them you dont have money like others but also explain to them your AMBITION to make money, girls are more in love with the concept than of the reality of it.

Take the moment to use this to your advantage by not being like everyone else and going on the expensive date? RATHER, use your resources wisely.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fabrizio

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start hustlin man, if your in high school you gotta have some money, its all about the paper. think about it, even if you plan a date on being cheap, then something comes up and you don't have enough money, thats a pretty bad impression. get a job, or start pushin.
 

Skilla_Staz

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I'm going to go along with everybody and say this:

I'm guessing you're old enough to be in highschool. I'm guessing you're old enough to start earning money for yourself and get a job. Stop waiting for mommy and daddy to give you money and start getting it yourself. There are kids like me who NEVER got allowance, and got everything basically on their own. Stop your whining and start applying.
 

pvf94

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im in the same situation, props for lazy asses that want to get hot *****es on dates. lmao, I need a job =)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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