"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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da_nuke

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OK, so I'm a high school student, and I only get $20 dollars a week. Everybody else I know gets at least $40. They always seem to have a LOT of money, while I always seem to have no money.

This school is all full of really, really hot chicks with a lot of money... and I'm just a worthless pauper that has been previously rejected in a really good place. Now I feel like I have to spend a lot of money in a date to impress them girls... but I just can't. Right now, for example, I have spent my last $3 dollars in fuel for my car. And no, I can't take the bus: I live in a 1000 ft hilltop, 5 miles away from the nearest bus stop.

I have absolutely no idea on where to go, and I feel like I'm gonna fail miserably if I dare taking these girls to a place within my economic possibilities. What can I do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheNewGuy

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Sebastien_Valmont said:
Get a Job.
QFT.


You know how much money I get per week? $0.
You know how much money I earn per week? Well, thats really none of your business.
 

Ll Principe

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See this as an oppurtunity, turn it into a masterpiece.
You say everyone has money and you dont, well that makes you unique already.
You stand out, you are different, continue that...tell the girls your different and yes tell them you dont have money like others but also explain to them your AMBITION to make money, girls are more in love with the concept than of the reality of it.

Take the moment to use this to your advantage by not being like everyone else and going on the expensive date? RATHER, use your resources wisely.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fabrizio

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start hustlin man, if your in high school you gotta have some money, its all about the paper. think about it, even if you plan a date on being cheap, then something comes up and you don't have enough money, thats a pretty bad impression. get a job, or start pushin.
 

Skilla_Staz

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I'm going to go along with everybody and say this:

I'm guessing you're old enough to be in highschool. I'm guessing you're old enough to start earning money for yourself and get a job. Stop waiting for mommy and daddy to give you money and start getting it yourself. There are kids like me who NEVER got allowance, and got everything basically on their own. Stop your whining and start applying.
 

pvf94

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im in the same situation, props for lazy asses that want to get hot *****es on dates. lmao, I need a job =)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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