"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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da_nuke

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OK, so I'm a high school student, and I only get $20 dollars a week. Everybody else I know gets at least $40. They always seem to have a LOT of money, while I always seem to have no money.

This school is all full of really, really hot chicks with a lot of money... and I'm just a worthless pauper that has been previously rejected in a really good place. Now I feel like I have to spend a lot of money in a date to impress them girls... but I just can't. Right now, for example, I have spent my last $3 dollars in fuel for my car. And no, I can't take the bus: I live in a 1000 ft hilltop, 5 miles away from the nearest bus stop.

I have absolutely no idea on where to go, and I feel like I'm gonna fail miserably if I dare taking these girls to a place within my economic possibilities. What can I do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheNewGuy

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Sebastien_Valmont said:
Get a Job.
QFT.


You know how much money I get per week? $0.
You know how much money I earn per week? Well, thats really none of your business.
 

Ll Principe

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See this as an oppurtunity, turn it into a masterpiece.
You say everyone has money and you dont, well that makes you unique already.
You stand out, you are different, continue that...tell the girls your different and yes tell them you dont have money like others but also explain to them your AMBITION to make money, girls are more in love with the concept than of the reality of it.

Take the moment to use this to your advantage by not being like everyone else and going on the expensive date? RATHER, use your resources wisely.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fabrizio

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start hustlin man, if your in high school you gotta have some money, its all about the paper. think about it, even if you plan a date on being cheap, then something comes up and you don't have enough money, thats a pretty bad impression. get a job, or start pushin.
 

Skilla_Staz

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I'm going to go along with everybody and say this:

I'm guessing you're old enough to be in highschool. I'm guessing you're old enough to start earning money for yourself and get a job. Stop waiting for mommy and daddy to give you money and start getting it yourself. There are kids like me who NEVER got allowance, and got everything basically on their own. Stop your whining and start applying.
 

pvf94

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im in the same situation, props for lazy asses that want to get hot *****es on dates. lmao, I need a job =)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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