"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kwothe

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Well i know this girl from quite sometime already. She a total 8 by the way, i am 23, she 26, i dont think age matters that much too her by the way.

I screw up the c/f and teasing, it hurt her feelings one time and i dint apologized, we still hang out cause we have so much in common and she is a nice person. I still feel a hint of anger/frus towards me, cause she too nice a person she would never yell or whatever in front of my face, i scare this go on too long i would fall into the LJBF zone and i hate that.

I did a few kino and she cool with that, i from asia country, so holding hands mean were a couple, so never try that. never kiss close either, i really like her so would like her to be my gf for now, anything to do to make her feels comfortable again?

It could be, she sees me a lil young, i never be sure, i dont mind losing her, just that i try to get as much of exp i can with each encounter so i can improve my game.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PectoralisMajor

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you say age doesnt matter to her, but it clearly does because you CROSSED the joking line and upset her. a more mature man would have recognised the line and wouldnt be in your position now.

unfortunately women remember EVERYTHING so she wont forget. best just be a man about it and if its bothering her, talking casually and explain you realize you went too far, and you didnt mean to. see what she says....
 

Kwothe

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well i guess your right,well got to suck it up and do it. Thanks pectoralismajor, it kinda hard the c/f thingy, haha, too much it becomes an insult. Sigh....well too bad, looks like theres no way to salvage this, gotta find my next lady to seduce, oh well what a great learning exp this is for me.
 
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