"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kwothe

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Well i know this girl from quite sometime already. She a total 8 by the way, i am 23, she 26, i dont think age matters that much too her by the way.

I screw up the c/f and teasing, it hurt her feelings one time and i dint apologized, we still hang out cause we have so much in common and she is a nice person. I still feel a hint of anger/frus towards me, cause she too nice a person she would never yell or whatever in front of my face, i scare this go on too long i would fall into the LJBF zone and i hate that.

I did a few kino and she cool with that, i from asia country, so holding hands mean were a couple, so never try that. never kiss close either, i really like her so would like her to be my gf for now, anything to do to make her feels comfortable again?

It could be, she sees me a lil young, i never be sure, i dont mind losing her, just that i try to get as much of exp i can with each encounter so i can improve my game.
 

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PectoralisMajor

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you say age doesnt matter to her, but it clearly does because you CROSSED the joking line and upset her. a more mature man would have recognised the line and wouldnt be in your position now.

unfortunately women remember EVERYTHING so she wont forget. best just be a man about it and if its bothering her, talking casually and explain you realize you went too far, and you didnt mean to. see what she says....
 

Kwothe

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well i guess your right,well got to suck it up and do it. Thanks pectoralismajor, it kinda hard the c/f thingy, haha, too much it becomes an insult. Sigh....well too bad, looks like theres no way to salvage this, gotta find my next lady to seduce, oh well what a great learning exp this is for me.
 
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