"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Help Screw up!! Needs help!

Kwothe

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2008
Messages
24
Reaction score
1
Well i know this girl from quite sometime already. She a total 8 by the way, i am 23, she 26, i dont think age matters that much too her by the way.

I screw up the c/f and teasing, it hurt her feelings one time and i dint apologized, we still hang out cause we have so much in common and she is a nice person. I still feel a hint of anger/frus towards me, cause she too nice a person she would never yell or whatever in front of my face, i scare this go on too long i would fall into the LJBF zone and i hate that.

I did a few kino and she cool with that, i from asia country, so holding hands mean were a couple, so never try that. never kiss close either, i really like her so would like her to be my gf for now, anything to do to make her feels comfortable again?

It could be, she sees me a lil young, i never be sure, i dont mind losing her, just that i try to get as much of exp i can with each encounter so i can improve my game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

PectoralisMajor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 18, 2007
Messages
328
Reaction score
4
you say age doesnt matter to her, but it clearly does because you CROSSED the joking line and upset her. a more mature man would have recognised the line and wouldnt be in your position now.

unfortunately women remember EVERYTHING so she wont forget. best just be a man about it and if its bothering her, talking casually and explain you realize you went too far, and you didnt mean to. see what she says....
 

Kwothe

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2008
Messages
24
Reaction score
1
well i guess your right,well got to suck it up and do it. Thanks pectoralismajor, it kinda hard the c/f thingy, haha, too much it becomes an insult. Sigh....well too bad, looks like theres no way to salvage this, gotta find my next lady to seduce, oh well what a great learning exp this is for me.
 
Top