"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hockey Playa

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This '5' has been almost stalking me for the last 2 months. Always saying we should hang out, aka hook up. Ive always put it off, cause shes friends with my ex, who i wouldnt mind rekindling it with in the near future.

Anyways i was very drunk at a party, and she starts messaging me, saying she wants to hang out. MY standards usually fall too when i drink, so i say what the hell, tell her to come over for a bit. So i leave the party drunk as fuk. Make out with her , get a BJ. than get her to drive me back lol. Anyways i was praying she would keep it on the DL. of course i start getting messages, ''o hey about us the other night'' with a smiley face.... Im yet to reply...IT would be pretty rude, to say ''Dont tell anyone'' i really dont anyone to find out though, or this to ever happen again...I dont know how to tell her i was just drunk and wanted piece....sighhhh drinking is bad.. lol any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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foomee

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Just say... "haha yeah, interesting night. i was so drunk, i barely remember any of it."
 

Matt ala Casanova

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Hey man,

You tell her how it is. It was what it was and that's it. Drop that in a text and no matter what you do, let it stew for a day. She will get the point when you don't reply.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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