"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gonna *try* to keep this short...

3 months ago..I finally met a girl worthwhile...started hanging out and having fun...nothing too serious...played my cards right by not calling, and talking to different girls and letting her chase me...it worked

we spent alot of time together during the holidays but I never really made a move and I think it drove her nuts...So we spent New years Eve together and really hit it off...what I mean by that is that this girl had very LITTLE experience and was very reserved and what *happened* was the last thing I expected...

I knew I liked her the next day when I didnt want to kick her out
(I`m an ass..I know)...

BUT, where I think I messed up is that a few days later I tell her I want to take things slow...so we`ve hung out twice since then and NO physical contact whatsoever...so of course I started analyzing and called her this week and text her and she didnt respond...has she already forgotten about that night?

I mean you read to be persistant BUT at the same time to be patient??? that worked at first and I got the girl so to speak but now what???

I might of played too hard to get and screwed up my chances...this girl use to want to hang out everyday and I ignored her...I`m a mess..

any thoughts would be appreciated

Thanks Guys
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oh boy...

I'm probably a total n00b, but i have this vision that no girl you have to 'play' to get her to like you is worthwhile. No offence, who wants to babysit a woman for the rest of his life really?!

Sounds like you got a case of the oneitis to me.
 
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