"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Bosshogg

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Gonna *try* to keep this short...

3 months ago..I finally met a girl worthwhile...started hanging out and having fun...nothing too serious...played my cards right by not calling, and talking to different girls and letting her chase me...it worked

we spent alot of time together during the holidays but I never really made a move and I think it drove her nuts...So we spent New years Eve together and really hit it off...what I mean by that is that this girl had very LITTLE experience and was very reserved and what *happened* was the last thing I expected...

I knew I liked her the next day when I didnt want to kick her out
(I`m an ass..I know)...

BUT, where I think I messed up is that a few days later I tell her I want to take things slow...so we`ve hung out twice since then and NO physical contact whatsoever...so of course I started analyzing and called her this week and text her and she didnt respond...has she already forgotten about that night?

I mean you read to be persistant BUT at the same time to be patient??? that worked at first and I got the girl so to speak but now what???

I might of played too hard to get and screwed up my chances...this girl use to want to hang out everyday and I ignored her...I`m a mess..

any thoughts would be appreciated

Thanks Guys
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Socialreject

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Oh boy...

I'm probably a total n00b, but i have this vision that no girl you have to 'play' to get her to like you is worthwhile. No offence, who wants to babysit a woman for the rest of his life really?!

Sounds like you got a case of the oneitis to me.
 
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