"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bosshogg

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Gonna *try* to keep this short...

3 months ago..I finally met a girl worthwhile...started hanging out and having fun...nothing too serious...played my cards right by not calling, and talking to different girls and letting her chase me...it worked

we spent alot of time together during the holidays but I never really made a move and I think it drove her nuts...So we spent New years Eve together and really hit it off...what I mean by that is that this girl had very LITTLE experience and was very reserved and what *happened* was the last thing I expected...

I knew I liked her the next day when I didnt want to kick her out
(I`m an ass..I know)...

BUT, where I think I messed up is that a few days later I tell her I want to take things slow...so we`ve hung out twice since then and NO physical contact whatsoever...so of course I started analyzing and called her this week and text her and she didnt respond...has she already forgotten about that night?

I mean you read to be persistant BUT at the same time to be patient??? that worked at first and I got the girl so to speak but now what???

I might of played too hard to get and screwed up my chances...this girl use to want to hang out everyday and I ignored her...I`m a mess..

any thoughts would be appreciated

Thanks Guys
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh boy...

I'm probably a total n00b, but i have this vision that no girl you have to 'play' to get her to like you is worthwhile. No offence, who wants to babysit a woman for the rest of his life really?!

Sounds like you got a case of the oneitis to me.
 
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