Ok, so this weekend I'm supposed to pick up this chick that I've never met. Basically a bunch of us are going out drinking and she wants to come out but doesn't know anybody. I got volunteered to pick her up. I've read through the tips but need to know how to start off on the right step. Once I get some liquor on me I'll be fine. lol.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Help....picking up a chick friday
- Thread starter NoClue
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You can start by taking your hand, Grabbing your ballz.... and stop asking people to hold your hand threw the processs. Its simple man Read the Bible and the hundred other similar threads people have posted.
-Hope my tip helps you out man
-Sinisa Out.
-Hope my tip helps you out man
-Sinisa Out.
superchristx
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no more than ONE drink. YOU being drunk will not be nearly as helpful as HER being drunk.
no more than ONE drink. YOU being drunk will not be nearly as helpful as HER being drunk.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So what did you learn from the "tips?"
Yes, i Deserve a slap. I said i would not flame anymore $FD plz do.
But as to your question what I learned: There is always so much you can read. It's pointless just to read and not apply to the field. Everyone says be the man, the ALPHA, if your gona be that man, you can't have somebody constantly holding your hand and getting other peoples opinions on things you should be doing. and I think my most important lesson was " Knowing when to stop is what seperates the real DJ from the rest" which I should be following, sound fomiluar $FD?
But as to your question what I learned: There is always so much you can read. It's pointless just to read and not apply to the field. Everyone says be the man, the ALPHA, if your gona be that man, you can't have somebody constantly holding your hand and getting other peoples opinions on things you should be doing. and I think my most important lesson was " Knowing when to stop is what seperates the real DJ from the rest" which I should be following, sound fomiluar $FD?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Well first of all, go buy her some flowers and candy. Next compliment her at LEAST 5 times when she first opens the door. Open the car door for her like she's a princess. Once you're in the car, talk at her constantly because like all women, she'll be fascinated with everything you have to say. If she tries to talk, interupt her and keep talking! This will show her you're assertive and won't put up with her BS. When you get to the bar, pay for all of her drinks and don't let her out of your sight. Make sure you ignore every other woman there and focus ALL of your attention on her. Finally at the end of the night, get down on one knee and profess you're undying love for her.