Ok, so this weekend I'm supposed to pick up this chick that I've never met. Basically a bunch of us are going out drinking and she wants to come out but doesn't know anybody. I got volunteered to pick her up. I've read through the tips but need to know how to start off on the right step. Once I get some liquor on me I'll be fine. lol.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Help....picking up a chick friday
- Thread starter NoClue
- Start date
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You can start by taking your hand, Grabbing your ballz.... and stop asking people to hold your hand threw the processs. Its simple man Read the Bible and the hundred other similar threads people have posted.
-Hope my tip helps you out man
-Sinisa Out.
-Hope my tip helps you out man
-Sinisa Out.
superchristx
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no more than ONE drink. YOU being drunk will not be nearly as helpful as HER being drunk.
no more than ONE drink. YOU being drunk will not be nearly as helpful as HER being drunk.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
So what did you learn from the "tips?"
Yes, i Deserve a slap. I said i would not flame anymore $FD plz do.
But as to your question what I learned: There is always so much you can read. It's pointless just to read and not apply to the field. Everyone says be the man, the ALPHA, if your gona be that man, you can't have somebody constantly holding your hand and getting other peoples opinions on things you should be doing. and I think my most important lesson was " Knowing when to stop is what seperates the real DJ from the rest" which I should be following, sound fomiluar $FD?
But as to your question what I learned: There is always so much you can read. It's pointless just to read and not apply to the field. Everyone says be the man, the ALPHA, if your gona be that man, you can't have somebody constantly holding your hand and getting other peoples opinions on things you should be doing. and I think my most important lesson was " Knowing when to stop is what seperates the real DJ from the rest" which I should be following, sound fomiluar $FD?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Well first of all, go buy her some flowers and candy. Next compliment her at LEAST 5 times when she first opens the door. Open the car door for her like she's a princess. Once you're in the car, talk at her constantly because like all women, she'll be fascinated with everything you have to say. If she tries to talk, interupt her and keep talking! This will show her you're assertive and won't put up with her BS. When you get to the bar, pay for all of her drinks and don't let her out of your sight. Make sure you ignore every other woman there and focus ALL of your attention on her. Finally at the end of the night, get down on one knee and profess you're undying love for her.