"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Help....picking up a chick friday

NoClue

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Ok, so this weekend I'm supposed to pick up this chick that I've never met. Basically a bunch of us are going out drinking and she wants to come out but doesn't know anybody. I got volunteered to pick her up. I've read through the tips but need to know how to start off on the right step. Once I get some liquor on me I'll be fine. lol.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SinisaD

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You can start by taking your hand, Grabbing your ballz.... and stop asking people to hold your hand threw the processs. Its simple man Read the Bible and the hundred other similar threads people have posted.

-Hope my tip helps you out man

-Sinisa Out.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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So what did you learn from the "tips?"
 

SinisaD

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Yes, i Deserve a slap. I said i would not flame anymore $FD plz do.

But as to your question what I learned: There is always so much you can read. It's pointless just to read and not apply to the field. Everyone says be the man, the ALPHA, if your gona be that man, you can't have somebody constantly holding your hand and getting other peoples opinions on things you should be doing. and I think my most important lesson was " Knowing when to stop is what seperates the real DJ from the rest" which I should be following, sound fomiluar $FD? :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Shiftkey

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Well first of all, go buy her some flowers and candy. Next compliment her at LEAST 5 times when she first opens the door. Open the car door for her like she's a princess. Once you're in the car, talk at her constantly because like all women, she'll be fascinated with everything you have to say. If she tries to talk, interupt her and keep talking! This will show her you're assertive and won't put up with her BS. When you get to the bar, pay for all of her drinks and don't let her out of your sight. Make sure you ignore every other woman there and focus ALL of your attention on her. Finally at the end of the night, get down on one knee and profess you're undying love for her.
 
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