She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Best goddamn response I've seen here.Jippii said:
But I'm sure with the right ammount of "gamez" she could have changed your mind!
:crackup: Now, of course we know that it doesn't work that way: If we're not physically attracted to a girl, there's nothing she could possibly do to change our mind. We take that for granted, because we just know that we're wired like that. So why can't some of you accept that girls work exactly the same way? again,why take something simple and try to turn it into something complex? Rak-X said:Best goddamn response I've seen here.
Seriously, she probably wasn't attracted physically.Simple as that.
Rule no1: Never over-estimate women. Women for the better or worse are extremely simple creatures. Why take something simple and try to turn it into something complex?
If she's not physically attracted, no ammount of "gamez" (be it "inner" or "outer") will change her mind.
But I'm sure with the right ammount of "gamez" she could have changed your mind!
To the OP: You're probably simply not attractive enough to interest attractive girls. "Why is it that a lot of ugly/average guys are so confident and willing to approach girls when it's clear that they're completely out of their league? lol"
Of course, we should all try to look our best when approaching women. But there's limit in how we can physically improve. If you're 5'7 and the girl only gets wet for 6'0 and above guy there's nothing you can do. If she only gets wet for guys that have the V-shape body then there's nothing you can do (since like height, that's determine by your bones). If she only get wets for guys that have the chiseled lower face,then there's nothing you can do...If you have an ugly mug and she only gets wet for handsome etc...see where I'm getting?
Reality says: attractive girls only wants handsome guys.Right there that's nature operating at the most basic level,ensuring that the best elements get together to ensure there's at least a few strong elements within the specy.
Same way most of you guys wouldn't touch an average or a UG girl with a ten-foot pole,these girl don't want anything to do with guys that aren't to their level. It's basic darwinian biology really
Anyway,all this to say: stick to girls that are in the same level as you look-wise and you'll do fine. If any of you still object after that... then you haven't been paying atttention! And I've been talking to some thick headed folks
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Too easy!LittleBigOne said:
... EXPLOIT them to get to the hot ones ....