When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Best goddamn response I've seen here.Jippii said:
But I'm sure with the right ammount of "gamez" she could have changed your mind!
:crackup: Now, of course we know that it doesn't work that way: If we're not physically attracted to a girl, there's nothing she could possibly do to change our mind. We take that for granted, because we just know that we're wired like that. So why can't some of you accept that girls work exactly the same way? again,why take something simple and try to turn it into something complex? Rak-X said:Best goddamn response I've seen here.
Seriously, she probably wasn't attracted physically.Simple as that.
Rule no1: Never over-estimate women. Women for the better or worse are extremely simple creatures. Why take something simple and try to turn it into something complex?
If she's not physically attracted, no ammount of "gamez" (be it "inner" or "outer") will change her mind.
But I'm sure with the right ammount of "gamez" she could have changed your mind!
To the OP: You're probably simply not attractive enough to interest attractive girls. "Why is it that a lot of ugly/average guys are so confident and willing to approach girls when it's clear that they're completely out of their league? lol"
Of course, we should all try to look our best when approaching women. But there's limit in how we can physically improve. If you're 5'7 and the girl only gets wet for 6'0 and above guy there's nothing you can do. If she only gets wet for guys that have the V-shape body then there's nothing you can do (since like height, that's determine by your bones). If she only get wets for guys that have the chiseled lower face,then there's nothing you can do...If you have an ugly mug and she only gets wet for handsome etc...see where I'm getting?
Reality says: attractive girls only wants handsome guys.Right there that's nature operating at the most basic level,ensuring that the best elements get together to ensure there's at least a few strong elements within the specy.
Same way most of you guys wouldn't touch an average or a UG girl with a ten-foot pole,these girl don't want anything to do with guys that aren't to their level. It's basic darwinian biology really
Anyway,all this to say: stick to girls that are in the same level as you look-wise and you'll do fine. If any of you still object after that... then you haven't been paying atttention! And I've been talking to some thick headed folks
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Too easy!LittleBigOne said:
... EXPLOIT them to get to the hot ones ....