Help--No ring , no sex!

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

MrCode

Senior Don Juan

Sep 13, 2004

Re: Turn the table on her.

Originally posted by DJoystick DJango
You want a power play ... You are lined up for gold.

You are actually in a position to LJBF her !

Continiue as you always have done around her, and when this ring-sh*t comes up again you simply say :

"Fine by me. Lets just be freinds."

and then treat her like any old friend. Let us know how long she lasts before she will break her own rule.

I second this.

Given her age this is just one of those empty promises people make to themselves, like New Year's resolutions. If you put the pressure on, she will probably buckle.

Still, it may be wise to look for some new "cows" with free milk.

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.