Call her up. Fluff talk. Find out her plans. If one of her days is free be like "I was plannin on [goin' to the mall] [movies] [goin' to a game]." Then invite her along. People don't like being bored. She'll most likely say yess. Then when you are with her run game like a motherfvcker!!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
help needed :) what to do ?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
IF you have known her alogn time and only talk about nuetral borring stuff then I would probaly not try to hit her up, she probaly doesn't feel it for you. But what I would do is set her up with a friend and tell her to bring a hot friend of hers along for you.
dyce
Don Juan
u should read the bible if u havent already man
not tryna be a smart ass or nothin' but i think, judging from ur post, that ur 'problem' isnt particularly deep
not tryna be a smart ass or nothin' but i think, judging from ur post, that ur 'problem' isnt particularly deep
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Just give up and move on. Never waste your time with girls that arn't interested, there are plenty of them out there....And what are you thinking bring her flowers?!?!?!and question... what to do now ?i had an idea to go to her home with a flower for her (to impress her or something like that
dyce
Don Juan
like i said, read the bible man
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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learn better english then read the bible/self help PUA stuff, and give up on the girl.