Call her up. Fluff talk. Find out her plans. If one of her days is free be like "I was plannin on [goin' to the mall] [movies] [goin' to a game]." Then invite her along. People don't like being bored. She'll most likely say yess. Then when you are with her run game like a motherfvcker!!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
help needed :) what to do ?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Best friends? NAY
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IF you have known her alogn time and only talk about nuetral borring stuff then I would probaly not try to hit her up, she probaly doesn't feel it for you. But what I would do is set her up with a friend and tell her to bring a hot friend of hers along for you.
dyce
Don Juan
u should read the bible if u havent already man
not tryna be a smart ass or nothin' but i think, judging from ur post, that ur 'problem' isnt particularly deep
not tryna be a smart ass or nothin' but i think, judging from ur post, that ur 'problem' isnt particularly deep
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Just give up and move on. Never waste your time with girls that arn't interested, there are plenty of them out there....And what are you thinking bring her flowers?!?!?!and question... what to do now ?i had an idea to go to her home with a flower for her (to impress her or something like that
dyce
Don Juan
like i said, read the bible man
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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learn better english then read the bible/self help PUA stuff, and give up on the girl.