"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Help me write my OLD profile

Young OG

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So, I took a good shirtless pic and I'm going to try out OLD again. Last time I tried it, I had no muscles and I was a afc/blue pill.

Help me write my profile. I'm going to start out using Tinder and POF. The problem is, I don't do much besides work on cars and take my car to car shows. I'm not sure if I should just lie about hobbies or what. I don't want to sound boring. I also don't see anything on Tinder so far that asks my height. I'm not that tall. Should I say I'm a inch taller when I am when forced to provide a height? When I message chicks, what is the best thing to say? I'm not looking for a LTR, I just want to bang.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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A fellow carguy .
Don't write too many things. You are selling information for free. Just write that you are athletic and that you like music. Most chicks buy those things.Put some fake info but not too much away from the reality.
 

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Keep it 8 more than 92. Don't fabricate any information. That way, it avoids the awkward "hey you're not...." conversation at least on your part. Plus, I'm pretty sure you're good enough as is, it's stupid to lie when don't need to.

If it's an insecurity you don't want to list, simply omit it. Write your real interests down so when you meet up with the slvt you wanna bang it's a meetup and not an audtion for some sort of online character you've created.

Don't worry about being "boring" she could care less, focus on how good the pictures of you are. Try to have some where your somewhere with people doing something, paticularly women. Don't want you're prof filled with too many simple selfies unless you're gorgeous.

Prepare yourself for a lot of trial and error, alot of the girls aren't gonna be as hot as they were online and worse they could even turn out fat. Alot of them will flake and some suddenly go cold. Sometimes you will get a gem though, and that's what makes it worth it. Work on your text game too.
 

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I took a good shirtless pic

Girls and guys define "good" differently. If you are alone in your bedroom or bathroom and flexing in front of the mirror, that's creepy. A good shirtless selfie is doing something out in public, with friends, where it is normal and expected to not have a shirt on.
 

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Look, are you selling or buying?

are you the prize or is she?

IMO you've get to set up a few hoops for her....you've got to set your expectations and
let her come into that...

what do I mean? You can write "I'm a person who thinks every relationship needs to have
positive emotions. I try to bring positive emotions to every encounter. IF you're a person
who carries positive emotions feel free to send me a message"

You see the IF? It's a fvcking qualifier....she'll want to qualify herself

You can write as many if's as you like...

One thing I did before and it was incredible how much it worked and how so
many hoes gave me the same response....

I posted something about the perreto principle...

Yeah it was ****y. I said that 80% of the chicks her ain't worth my time, that I am in the
20% of quality people. IF you think you are too....

Incredible how many responses I got that said "I'm in the 20%"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I took a good shirtless pic

Girls and guys define "good" differently. If you are alone in your bedroom or bathroom and flexing in front of the mirror, that's creepy. A good shirtless selfie is doing something out in public, with friends, where it is normal and expected to not have a shirt on.
I used a tripod with a smart phone adaptor to take the pic through the mirror in my bathroom. The door is behind me and I cropped it around the mirror. It just looks like I'm standing in front of a door. My pose makes it look almost like a modeling picture lol. I would have taken the pic somewhere else in my house, but for some reason the lighting in there makes my abs show more.

Look, are you selling or buying?

are you the prize or is she?

IMO you've get to set up a few hoops for her....you've got to set your expectations and
let her come into that...

what do I mean? You can write "I'm a person who thinks every relationship needs to have
positive emotions. I try to bring positive emotions to every encounter. IF you're a person
who carries positive emotions feel free to send me a message"

You see the IF? It's a fvcking qualifier....she'll want to qualify herself

You can write as many if's as you like...

One thing I did before and it was incredible how much it worked and how so
many hoes gave me the same response....

I posted something about the perreto principle...

Yeah it was ****y. I said that 80% of the chicks her ain't worth my time, that I am in the
20% of quality people. IF you think you are too....

Incredible how many responses I got that said "I'm in the 20%"
This is great. Thanks.
 

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Well, in 48 hours on OLD I have had more luck then I did in 2 months over a year ago. I couldnt even get a date or replies last time. It really shows how much a good shirtless pic that shows muscles and abs can improve your game. Plus, I used some things I learned on here when it came to the messages. I already have a date set up for Saturday, unless she flakes. Tinder seems to have a lot of spammers...
 

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google Naughty Ninja POF Number grabs...the thread should be stickied for online dating, but instead its been deleted because the poster was banned, and apparently the mods went on a power trip over it...a shame, it had a TON of great advice in it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Young OG

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google Naughty Ninja POF Number grabs...the thread should be stickied for online dating, but instead its been deleted because the poster was banned, and apparently the mods went on a power trip over it...a shame, it had a TON of great advice in it.
Thanks. I found the thread. Its great for POF. Do you know of any good openers for matches on Tinder or a thread that has some?
 
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