"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Help Me With This Kinder Convo

kidkurious

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I got a match with a decent-looking chick on tender.

Here's the convo I started with her so far.

me: hi
girl: hey
me: how's tinder treating you?
girl: not bad. can't complain. you?

I don't know where go from there.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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El Payaso

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Lol. You misspelled Tinder TWICE. Anyway, there should be stuff on her profile that you can go off of. Perhaps stuff she mentioned about what she does for a living, things she likes to do for fun, stuff about her personality. Anything go off that.
 

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El Payaso said:
Lol. You misspelled Tinder TWICE. Anyway, there should be stuff on her profile that you can go off of. Perhaps stuff she mentioned about what she does for a living, things she likes to do for fun, stuff about her personality. Anything go off that.
thanks

**** I didn't realize the typo haha
 

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Never start with Hi on Tinder.
Differentiate yourself and say something funny, or even sexual. Even a horrible pick up line would suffice...
 

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yea your first two lines are terribly boring. Youre going to have to turn it around with something that shows humor and personality.
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I might say something like "F**cking terrible. Keep getting stalked by all these girls. I mean i'm used to it, but still...."

But YMMV, obv dont use that if you're not going to be congruent with it when you keep talking. Once you build a decent level of comfort, you need to number close: "Tinder is so glitchy. Text me: (***)***-****"

Once you get the number, fluff for a few texts and then push for a "non-date" meetup, like coming to hangout at a coffee shop while you get stuff done, or w/e.

Tinder is not an app where you sit there and talk to her for weeks. You need to weed out the bad leads, quickly escalate to a number close and a meetup.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gravityeyelids said:
something like "F**cking terrible. Keep getting stalked by all these girls. I mean i'm used to it, but still...."
excellent.

I used this.

she replied with: don't worry about me. i'm not a stalker

now what am I supposed to say?
 

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kidkurious said:
excellent.

I used this.

she replied with: don't worry about me. i'm not a stalker

now what am I supposed to say?
You really needa be yourself.
What are you going to do if you actually meet up with her and go out?
 

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CaptainSaveAh0 said:
You really needa be yourself.
What are you going to do if you actually meet up with her and go out?
I'll be on my phone the whole time asking you guys what to do next.

I replied with this:
it's good to know you won't stalk me after I take you out to a nice dinner and never call you back.
 

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what a bad troll
 

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Troll.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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kidkurious said:
I'll be on my phone the whole time asking you guys what to do next.

I replied with this:
it's good to know you won't stalk me after I take you out to a nice dinner and never call you back.
LMAO that kind of implies that she can get a nice free meal out of you
 

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hmm... not sure where to go from here... help me out fellas!

She seems to be responding well, unless I'm totally off (i've been out of the game for years... refer to the date of my previous threads haha)

 
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