"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Help me respond to this text.

The_Mole

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I met this 9 at a bar. We met at 12 AM and exhchange numbers. She texts me an hour later at 1 AM. The text just said hey. I didn’t respond. Several minutes later she text hey again. I was out clubbing with some girlfriends so I didn’t respond.

I responded the next day.

I do not get a response for 3 days until she texts: “hey lol!, hope you had a good thanksgiving. How are you?? Sorry! I don’t remember your name.”

How do I respond to this text especially with her late response and also forgetting who I am?? Is she playing some seduction tricks on me? Haha

Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My first response was pretty much hi and something short about what we talked about to remind her who i was.

Also she was not drunk when we exchanged numbers. But she was probably drunk an hour later when she was hitting me up for hotline bling.

I guess what I’m confused about is I never had a lady wait 3 days before texting back. Is she applying the 3 day rule on me lol. And how do I counter it??
 

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Damn!!! That’s such a great response, but I put her name in the first text lol. ‍♂
 
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