"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help me respond to this text.

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I met this 9 at a bar. We met at 12 AM and exhchange numbers. She texts me an hour later at 1 AM. The text just said hey. I didn’t respond. Several minutes later she text hey again. I was out clubbing with some girlfriends so I didn’t respond.

I responded the next day.

I do not get a response for 3 days until she texts: “hey lol!, hope you had a good thanksgiving. How are you?? Sorry! I don’t remember your name.”

How do I respond to this text especially with her late response and also forgetting who I am?? Is she playing some seduction tricks on me? Haha

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My first response was pretty much hi and something short about what we talked about to remind her who i was.

Also she was not drunk when we exchanged numbers. But she was probably drunk an hour later when she was hitting me up for hotline bling.

I guess what I’m confused about is I never had a lady wait 3 days before texting back. Is she applying the 3 day rule on me lol. And how do I counter it??
 
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Damn!!! That’s such a great response, but I put her name in the first text lol. ‍♂
 
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