"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Help me respond to this text.

The_Mole

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I met this 9 at a bar. We met at 12 AM and exhchange numbers. She texts me an hour later at 1 AM. The text just said hey. I didn’t respond. Several minutes later she text hey again. I was out clubbing with some girlfriends so I didn’t respond.

I responded the next day.

I do not get a response for 3 days until she texts: “hey lol!, hope you had a good thanksgiving. How are you?? Sorry! I don’t remember your name.”

How do I respond to this text especially with her late response and also forgetting who I am?? Is she playing some seduction tricks on me? Haha

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My first response was pretty much hi and something short about what we talked about to remind her who i was.

Also she was not drunk when we exchanged numbers. But she was probably drunk an hour later when she was hitting me up for hotline bling.

I guess what I’m confused about is I never had a lady wait 3 days before texting back. Is she applying the 3 day rule on me lol. And how do I counter it??
 

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Damn!!! That’s such a great response, but I put her name in the first text lol. ‍♂
 
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