"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Help me respond to this text.

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I met this 9 at a bar. We met at 12 AM and exhchange numbers. She texts me an hour later at 1 AM. The text just said hey. I didn’t respond. Several minutes later she text hey again. I was out clubbing with some girlfriends so I didn’t respond.

I responded the next day.

I do not get a response for 3 days until she texts: “hey lol!, hope you had a good thanksgiving. How are you?? Sorry! I don’t remember your name.”

How do I respond to this text especially with her late response and also forgetting who I am?? Is she playing some seduction tricks on me? Haha

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My first response was pretty much hi and something short about what we talked about to remind her who i was.

Also she was not drunk when we exchanged numbers. But she was probably drunk an hour later when she was hitting me up for hotline bling.

I guess what I’m confused about is I never had a lady wait 3 days before texting back. Is she applying the 3 day rule on me lol. And how do I counter it??
 
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Damn!!! That’s such a great response, but I put her name in the first text lol. ‍♂
 
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