"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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studmuffin

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I had a date the other day. We went to the bowling alley after leaving a local diner. I had been feeling a little sick the whole day with mild stomach cramps but thought nothing of it and figured it would pass. Things were going really well and after about an hour, we decided to call it a night. I started feeling really nauseated on the way home and eventually I just vomited all over the place in my truck with my date next to me. While I was vomiting, I sh't all over myself. I has shorts on and it was running down my leg. The stench of vomit and sh't was horrible. My date starts screaming as if I'd grown a second head or something.
I had a bad stomach virus and was laid up for a day following this. She did call to see if I was feeling better but the same playful tone in her voice wasn't there. I know this wasn't my finest hour but surely people can get past this. How would you all approach this?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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penkitten

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are u still sick?
eat chicken soup, drink lots of fluids, stay in bed.
if she calls tell her you need a nurse hehe.
 

R3N3G4D3

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Dude, is it so hard to open the door and turn your head to face outside the car when vomiting? I assume you vomited while the car was standing still, not while you were going 60 on a freeway. When I vomit, I never get the crap on me. And I guarantee you if you did that she wouldn't have been as freaked out.
 

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Not to evade the question dude but this is really all dependent on how mature the chick is. If she's bratty superficial twit she'll wig out about it, if she has class/maturity she'll realize everybody gets sick and nobody can control when and where it is gonna happen. She look past it and it won't be a big deal at all. Would you really want to be with a girl that is such a space cadet she can't look past you getting ill anyway?
 

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It's totally understandable, when your sick like that it just happens, you have no control over it (of course you could of turned your head the other way to vomit but, whatever). Don't worry about it, if she can't accept that you were really ill then she's not worth it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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