"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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help me pls to fullfill my new years resolution

saturnalia

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I have no social circle, my life just sucks, so as a new years resolution, I decided to dedicated my free time to daygame

I have absolutely no experience in it, also I have some mild social anxiety, but I think, that`s due to me not having a peer group giving me positive feed-back

so what do you guys recommend me, when it comes do daygame?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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There's enough material on day game. Just need to start event smi-relevant conversations and people will appreciate it and join the banter. Everyone likes to be approached for conversation, even the botches who pretend they can't be bothered.

If you come across a rude person, just say, "well enjoy your day," and walk away. With practice everything will come naturally and you won't have to think or openers.

One big piece of advice: smiles and excitement are contagious along with yawns! Project the positive.
 

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alpha_ash said:
There's enough material on day game. Just need to start event smi-relevant conversations and people will appreciate it and join the banter. Everyone likes to be approached for conversation, even the botches who pretend they can't be bothered.

If you come across a rude person, just say, "well enjoy your day," and walk away. With practice everything will come naturally and you won't have to think or openers.

One big piece of advice: smiles and excitement are contagious along with yawns! Project the positive.
okay, thanks I will check out the DJ bible as well, does it contain information relevant to daygame?

and I`m also "old", I`m 30, is it a positive for women in their 20`s or not?
 

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Work on your inner self first, you're a skinny soldier asking for weapons that he cannot master untill he is strong enough to hold them properly.

Work on your look and self confidence first (the two are connected anyway), join the gym and train seriously, this one is mandatory both for look and self confidence reasons, if you have money buy some decent clothes as well.

Once you are your best self you can go into action, if you go in action without being ready you only risk to fail and enter in a negative loop which will make it harder for you to persist.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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