"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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help me pls to fullfill my new years resolution

saturnalia

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I have no social circle, my life just sucks, so as a new years resolution, I decided to dedicated my free time to daygame

I have absolutely no experience in it, also I have some mild social anxiety, but I think, that`s due to me not having a peer group giving me positive feed-back

so what do you guys recommend me, when it comes do daygame?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There's enough material on day game. Just need to start event smi-relevant conversations and people will appreciate it and join the banter. Everyone likes to be approached for conversation, even the botches who pretend they can't be bothered.

If you come across a rude person, just say, "well enjoy your day," and walk away. With practice everything will come naturally and you won't have to think or openers.

One big piece of advice: smiles and excitement are contagious along with yawns! Project the positive.
 

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alpha_ash said:
There's enough material on day game. Just need to start event smi-relevant conversations and people will appreciate it and join the banter. Everyone likes to be approached for conversation, even the botches who pretend they can't be bothered.

If you come across a rude person, just say, "well enjoy your day," and walk away. With practice everything will come naturally and you won't have to think or openers.

One big piece of advice: smiles and excitement are contagious along with yawns! Project the positive.
okay, thanks I will check out the DJ bible as well, does it contain information relevant to daygame?

and I`m also "old", I`m 30, is it a positive for women in their 20`s or not?
 

Who Dares Win

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Work on your inner self first, you're a skinny soldier asking for weapons that he cannot master untill he is strong enough to hold them properly.

Work on your look and self confidence first (the two are connected anyway), join the gym and train seriously, this one is mandatory both for look and self confidence reasons, if you have money buy some decent clothes as well.

Once you are your best self you can go into action, if you go in action without being ready you only risk to fail and enter in a negative loop which will make it harder for you to persist.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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