"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Help me out with end of school prom like thing asap!!!

dante82

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Ok here is the deal. I have been flirting with a girl and she eventually ended up going to the formal/prom/dance thing with me. I like her a little bit and agreed pretty much as a last of the line ok. Anyway she I dont really know if she likes me. Remember that for later! Anyway or class went on a trip and this really hott girl ended up sleeping on the way home before and I can tell she likes me. (she has even admitted it before its just she had a boyfriend at the time) I would like to know who should I go with? I wanna go with girl number 2, but I have already turned on girl 1 once before and I dont want to looko like spome guy who when he flirts it means nothing. Also I already told her i guess I would go. How would i let her know without being mean/rude? Thank you
Please resply ASAP!!!
 

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Act like a man and stick with the decisions you made. You have a responsibility to this girl now, and you already said you like her. Put the moves on her.
 

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I guess i could.

I said i like her a little and even if somthing in the sumer messes us up i have the hott ones phone number :) :D Does anyone have any other suggestions? please respond ASAP i am seriously thinking about the hott one
 

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It sounds to me like the hott girl is just trying to use you as her toy, since she has a bf, and still is coming on to you. I've delt with these types before. At the moment you show that you aren't falling for it, they'll snap. Keep your sights on the girl you want, not the distraction. Keep your eye on the prize.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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