"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Help me out with end of school prom like thing asap!!!

dante82

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Ok here is the deal. I have been flirting with a girl and she eventually ended up going to the formal/prom/dance thing with me. I like her a little bit and agreed pretty much as a last of the line ok. Anyway she I dont really know if she likes me. Remember that for later! Anyway or class went on a trip and this really hott girl ended up sleeping on the way home before and I can tell she likes me. (she has even admitted it before its just she had a boyfriend at the time) I would like to know who should I go with? I wanna go with girl number 2, but I have already turned on girl 1 once before and I dont want to looko like spome guy who when he flirts it means nothing. Also I already told her i guess I would go. How would i let her know without being mean/rude? Thank you
Please resply ASAP!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Act like a man and stick with the decisions you made. You have a responsibility to this girl now, and you already said you like her. Put the moves on her.
 

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I guess i could.

I said i like her a little and even if somthing in the sumer messes us up i have the hott ones phone number :) :D Does anyone have any other suggestions? please respond ASAP i am seriously thinking about the hott one
 

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It sounds to me like the hott girl is just trying to use you as her toy, since she has a bf, and still is coming on to you. I've delt with these types before. At the moment you show that you aren't falling for it, they'll snap. Keep your sights on the girl you want, not the distraction. Keep your eye on the prize.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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