"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Help me out with end of school prom like thing asap!!!

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Ok here is the deal. I have been flirting with a girl and she eventually ended up going to the formal/prom/dance thing with me. I like her a little bit and agreed pretty much as a last of the line ok. Anyway she I dont really know if she likes me. Remember that for later! Anyway or class went on a trip and this really hott girl ended up sleeping on the way home before and I can tell she likes me. (she has even admitted it before its just she had a boyfriend at the time) I would like to know who should I go with? I wanna go with girl number 2, but I have already turned on girl 1 once before and I dont want to looko like spome guy who when he flirts it means nothing. Also I already told her i guess I would go. How would i let her know without being mean/rude? Thank you
Please resply ASAP!!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Act like a man and stick with the decisions you made. You have a responsibility to this girl now, and you already said you like her. Put the moves on her.
 
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I guess i could.

I said i like her a little and even if somthing in the sumer messes us up i have the hott ones phone number :) :D Does anyone have any other suggestions? please respond ASAP i am seriously thinking about the hott one
 
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It sounds to me like the hott girl is just trying to use you as her toy, since she has a bf, and still is coming on to you. I've delt with these types before. At the moment you show that you aren't falling for it, they'll snap. Keep your sights on the girl you want, not the distraction. Keep your eye on the prize.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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